Context: Abigail and Jacob’s wedding proceeded, and following the event, Ioan (Ionuc) Retegan and his wife, Daniela (Dana) Retegan, continued to spread, lies about the couple to the community and maintain the narrative that they had created surrounding the couples’ relationship. Many things happened over the years, including the manipulation of Jacob‘s own siblings to be against him and his wife. Jacobs sister-in-law, Ella Retegan, wife to JD Retegan, was so indoctrinated that she went so far as to phone Abigail at work and berate her with profane language with regard to her lack of a good-standing relationship with Ionuc and Dana Retegan. The proof of this, and conversation between Abigail and Ella has been attached.
The conversation then moved to a family group chat, where Jacob openly requested the entire family get together and confront all of the lies, manipulation, and drama that unfolded over the years, in order to wipe the slate clean once and for all, and start a fresh relationship. At first Ionuc Retegan obliged, inviting them to meet at his house with everyone. However, after Jacob’s own sister, Rachel, and her husband, Nathan Seicean, replied on the family group chat expressing their disgust for their parents’ actions as well, Ionuc retracted his invitation. He refused to meet after having invited everyone. This family group chat has also been attached as evidence of the conversation that was had.
Ionuc proceeded to insist on the family group chat that he be allowed to meet with each individual couple separately (Jacob with Abigail, Rachel with Nathan, JD with Ella). Abigail and Jacob refused this, as did Nathan and Rachel, knowing that in doing so, this would enable Ionuc to manipulate the individual conversations once again and twist the narrative to save his own image. Both couples expressed they wished to meet and discuss the issues at hand with the WHOLE family present. Ionuc once again refused, citing Biblical passages, that he intentionally left portions out of to fit his argument.
Jacob and Abigail together agreed to cut off all contact with Ionuc and Dana until they were ready to reconcile everything that had happened in the past face-to-face with the whole family, for the purpose of clearing up any misunderstandings, misinformation, and misconception that the immediate family members had with regard to the couple as a result of the narrative they spread. This was communicated by Jacob Retegan on the family group chat, as well.
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